Stop Saying “I Think” – Own Your Voice
I still find myself starting sentences with “I think.”
“I think this might help… I think we should consider… I think we should go with this proposal.”
Even when I knew I was right, those two words often slipped in. It seemed more polite and non-confrontational - especially in large meeting rooms full of colleagues.
“I think” often acts as a cushion—something we use to protect ourselves from being challenged or judged. Overusing “I think” can subtly diminish your authority and confidence—especially for women who have been socially conditioned to soften their voices.
But the truth is: your experience is enough. Your insight is valid. Your voice doesn’t need permission—it needs practice.
Try saying, “This matters to me,” instead of “I think this matters.” It’s subtle, but it’s powerful.
Start noticing when those words appear. Gently let them go. And let your voice stand tall.
You don’t think you’re capable. You are.
The article below offers some great suggestions to use instead - and how to break the habit. I recommend you read it!